The Experience

Not couples therapy.
Not a wellness weekend.

The retreat is something rare: a very private, relaxed space to explore intimacy together. With guidance, with the body, with honesty. And yes, with desire.

We work with what’s alive in your relationship. With the longing that’s still there — beneath the routine. With the curiosity you haven’t followed yet. With the touch you want to find your way back to.

Depending on what serves you, we explore conscious touch and sensuality, nervous system regulation, erotic polarity and play, communication and consent, embodied rituals, kink-aware exploration — or simply the pleasure of being fully present with each other.

Everything is invitation-based, trauma-sensitive, and aligned with your boundaries and desires.

Some sessions are quiet. Some playful. All of them are yours.

For Whom

For couples – in whatever form you take

Monogamous, ethically non-monogamous, polyamorous, relationship anarchists, polycules of two, queer, kinky, curious — or somewhere in between: you are welcome. What matters is not your relationship structure. But the intention to dive in honestly and explore together.

You might feel at home here if you long for more physical and emotional closeness, want to grow out of patterns that have solidified over time. Or you’re curious about conscious sexuality, erotic exploration, or somatic approaches. You want to bring more play, desire, and aliveness into your intimacy — or simply give your relationship real, undivided time and attention.

It’s not about fixing something. It’s about turning toward what’s possible.

What makes this retreat different

Most of what exists for couples falls into one of two categories: therapy (talk-based, problem-focused) or wellness (relaxing, but superficial). This is neither.

This retreat is private and individual — no group dynamics, no generic program. It is fully body-based, because real intimacy doesn’t live in concepts alone. I work with you in a grounded, contemporary way — no spiritual staging, no outdated gender roles, no performance. The private couple retreat is pleasure-positive and playful — because intimacy isn’t only about healing, but also about aliveness, play, and genuine enjoyment.

Casa dos Gatos · Vilamoura

Intimacy needs space. Really.

Private estate with pool, completely shielded from view.

The feeling of finally being able to breathe.

Casa dos Gatos in Vilamoura is where I hold private retreats — a beautiful, fully private estate with pool, surrounded by nature and completely shielded from outside view. Twenty minutes from Faro Airport. Far from everyday life.

There’s something about arriving here that changes something in the body. The warmth, the light, the quiet. The feeling of finally being able to breathe.

A place made for presence — and for the kind of intimacy that only becomes possible when you truly feel safe and unobserved.

Private Pool

Secluded Property

20 min – Faro Airport

Nature & Silence

Before the Retreat

Discovery Call & Preparation

Intentions, boundaries, desires. Questionnaire. The retreat is built around you.

3 Days of Retreat Time

Private Sessions, Rituals & Play

Somatic work, communication, embodied rituals, playfulness and space for rest.

After the Retreat

Integration
& Follow-up

Recommendations:
optional online follow-up session. What opens up, stays open.

Reconnect

3 Days
Private Retreat

ab € 4.500

Presence, conscious touch, communication and somatic body work – a foundation of safety, connection and aliveness. I hold space exclusively for you for 3 days.

Full Immersion

3-Day Private Retreat + Deep Integration Phase

ab € 5.900

Everything from the Reconnect package with
Erotic exploration, rituals, kink-aware work PLUS deepened integration phase of 1 month, so that what opens doesn’t close again.

Frequently Asked Questions

Every retreat is individually designed. We work with somatic body work, communication practices, and — if desired — erotic exploration. Everything as an invitation, nothing mandatory.

Yes — many couples come not from a crisis, but because they want more. More depth, more aliveness, more awareness in their connection.

Explicitly yes. The retreat is open to all relationship models — monogamous, ENM, polyamorous, polycules, queer, kinky.

Accommodation can be included upon request. Casa dos Gatos is located in Vilamoura, Algarve — 20 minutes from Faro Airport.

An open conversation of about 30 minutes. We look together at where you are, what you’re hoping for — and whether the retreat is right for you. No sales pressure.